The old one is different but the new one is beautiful
More or less all of us have been through a confusing situation where we have to choose whether we want to go back to our ex or be with our current one since it's time to move on and stop crying over something that's over.Unfortunately, we are in the middle of a dangerous love triangle, as logic -now- and heart -formerly- collide, and you have difficulty clarifying what you really want.
But don't make your life too difficult. You can stay alone for a while, go on a trip to a favorite place that calms you down, and with a piece of paper and a pencil, you can write down the positives and negatives of the two people you love.
Don't forget, of course, that going back to your ex never works out well since you've already broken up and being in this situation means that something was wrong, but on the other hand, you know her well, but let me tell you something? The magic of a relationship is letting go of your ex and moving on to the present and trying to get to know her and give her the opportunity to enter your heart too.
As for the issue of maintaining a friendship with your ex while also having a current one, you should know that you are treading very dangerous paths, since any contact with your ex will bring deeply hidden feelings to the surface and your wounds will reopen.
Former Vs Present
- The ex is the past Vs The present is the present but maybe also your future if you have made the right choice
- The ex hurt you Vs The current one might not hurt you if he truly loves you
- When something ends, it stays the same, because glass doesn't stick together if it breaks Vs When something begins, butterflies are in your stomach and you feel like you're falling in love for the first time
Before making a decision, weigh everything and see what you really want, but know that life is yours and your choices may have consequences.
But don't torture yourself and don't force situations, so let things happen on their own and the signs around you will show you whether you should be with your ex or your current one.