I imagine that all of us, more or less at some point in our lives, lived in our own world and in our own pink bubble.
We impatiently awaited the prince on the white horse and believed that our own fairy tale also ended with the well-known: \"And they lived well and we lived better\", except that in real life this is not true and as soon as we are badly hurt we land abruptly in real life.In the movies, everything is rosy, they break up, cry, and go back to their ex and everything is fine. But in real life, it's not like that, because as soon as you break up, the "so-called" one presses the button in his brain to put the friendship plan into action, because he suddenly remembered that you're a good girl.
Yes, I agree, you're a good girl, but believe me, you don't want your ex as your boyfriend. You have friends, and if you become friends, you'll have to put up with talking about every current situation he might have, or will you all just go out together like nothing's happening?
Before you agree to be friends with your ex, bring him down to reality a little and explain to him that: "A friendship becomes love, a love never becomes friendship" and that what he has in mind will never work out.
To become "friends" with your ex, time must have passed, let alone years, for you to stop having feelings for him and have moved on with your life.
Leave the friendships with your ex for now, put on your most beautiful smile and live your life!!!