You'll rarely, if ever, see me writing about ways to win your ex back, because I consider such setbacks wrong.
After all, breaking up means that something was wrong in the relationship, and don't forget that if you go back to him, things might be worse in your next breakup than they were.
Before you make the big decision to reconnect, think about the fact that people, and especially character, never change.
Of course, you can listen to John Plutarch alone in your house and cry about your divorce.
But let me tell you the 7 steps you need to take to win him back:
- First of all, you have to be sure that there is no third party involved, unless he cheated on you, etc., because then it's not worth dealing with him at all and just move on.
- If there is no third party then you should stop constantly sending him messages, or calling him. Even if he texts you, always reply late or not at all to show him that you are only available whenever he wants.
- Dress up, decorate yourself, and go out. Flirt discreetly, do the usual check-ins, upload photos with your male friends - it would be good to have someone in the photo who doesn't know him - to show him that you've moved on and don't need him.
- If you know where he works, you can have a good time there by chance with a friend of yours - again, don't let him know, or at least with someone who is jealous of him or doesn't like him - and make small talk.
- I imagine you know the well-known motto, "Indifference breaks bones." So be indifferent and spit a little, don't show that you're angry and that you're his little dog.
- Don't run after him for the slightest thing, don't constantly check his social media and what he uploads. Get out and about a bit and stop being so busy all the time.
- Give it some time, don't push things, and if he's going to come back, he will, otherwise you'll find the next one.
To win your ex back you need to have a lot of patience, because it's not always easy.
Whether you find them again or not, smile and don't be sad!!!