Most women, when we break up, delete our exes from social media and from our lives. We move on, we renew ourselves, we recharge our batteries with confidence and we are ready for the next love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
And when you find him, you're sure that the current one is now the right one for you and you're happy that you finally found someone who deserves you and that you finally broke away from your past.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At first, everything is perfect, you experience absolute love and nothing spoils your mood. Until that night when you hear your ex's phone ringing and you discover that he's still texting his ex, and then the monster of jealousy awakens inside you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But what does this mean? Is it necessarily a bad thing or did he just forget to tell you that they have kept in touch?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Maybe they really have remained friends - I hope they stay there and not be friends with benefits - but he should have told you from the beginning so you wouldn't explode with jealousy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-On the other hand, in order to talk to his ex, he may not have finished what he felt for her. A conversation with him is necessary to understand what's going on and whether he just wants to play it safe!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Have you considered the possibility that she's the only one sending him messages without a response? If he doesn't reply to her or if he's only replied out of politeness, then you have nothing to fear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The past often knocks on our door and is like a ghost over our relationship. What matters is what we want from our past and whether we will open those doors again!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As for your current boyfriend who is still talking to his ex, it would be a good idea to talk to him honestly and have a dialogue before thinking about the worst-case scenario.<\/p>\n\n\n\n