"LOL, we matched on Tinder! What are the chances?!"
1. Tweeting with your ex
Nothing strange, you just constantly check his Twitter to see if he's single or not.
2. Writing \"Happy Birthday\" on his Facebook wall.
Okay, even if you broke up, you can write him a wish on Facebook. There you'll see how he reacts or if he sends you a message to say a simple "thank you" or "don't write to me on my wall again because my current girlfriend is jealous", but if he sends you a sweet message, etc., then yes, it's a sign that he still cares about you.
3. The "LOL, we agreed on Tinder, what are the chances?"
I don't know about Tinder, or rather I know about it but I haven't gotten around to using it, but if your ex catches your eye and you want him back and he wants you back, then yes, you have a good chance of getting back together.
4. Check Facebook to see if there are any girls he "likes"
And who hasn't searched their ex to see what he's uploading or liking? If you want him back you need to see if you have competition and how you're going to deal with it. But keep in the back of your mind that you're his ex and you know his sensitive buttons that will make him bend so you can find them again.
5. The super text you can send
"Hey, how are you?" We've all been sent this text, and underneath it follows a long, touching text - regardless of whether he appreciates it very much - and we anxiously wait for him to reply. Know that if your ex is romantic, he will reply, if he's in a relationship or if he just doesn't want to come back, he may not reply, but don't bombard him with messages either.
6. Finding something that belongs to them that they would never want back.
"Hi Kostas, I found a shirt of yours in my closet & I thought you might want me to give it to you." A message like this might make you reconsider the possibility of reconnecting, because maybe meeting again after a while makes you remember some of your most beautiful moments.
7. Email is a good way to send a message
"Hey Nikos, how are you? We're lost. How's your job, your new house?" An email like this might be the beginning of a reconnection without you hitting him up crying about your breakup.
8. The \"random\" walk from his workplace.
If you know where he works and what time he goes to school, you can randomly drop by his office to see him. But be careful not to get hurt if he's in a new relationship.
9. Don't bombard him with messages all the time
You should send him one message and that's it, not 11 messages in a row. If he wants to, he'll answer you, if he doesn't, that's okay, let's move on to something else!
10. If you dare, go outside his house
If you have the guts, if you don't mind that you might see him with his new relationship, then yes, go outside his house to talk, although I'm against this tactic because you're also throwing your ego out there, but if you're burning to do it, then yes, go with it!