Quarantine and communication with an ex : In the past months we have experienced something unprecedented & perhaps we will experience it again in the future, if & we hope we are not locked in our homes again.
During quarantine, if you were separated, you might have received a message from your ex or sent a message to him.
So why did this exchange of messages happen?
Isolation is difficult, especially if you're divorced and can't go anywhere & your mind is stuck on your ex as you're locked in 4 walls.
If you received a message from your ex:
First you need to discover how you feel about it & ask yourself what his intentions are.
Before you reply, you should think about whether you want to send a message for a response or not.
Don't make hasty & spontaneous decisions because emotion is ruling at the moment.
If you've sent him a message, you need to ask yourself what the purpose of this is & what you really want from him.
If he doesn't answer you, you have to accept the fact & move on, because that means he doesn't want to keep any contact with you.
Quarantine and communication with an ex : I personally wouldn't send any messages, nor would I respond if he sent them to me.
And that's because setbacks don't always have a good ending.
So if you were chatting with your ex during quarantine and now he's disappeared, I think you understand what he really wanted.
At that time, he probably didn't have anything else to do or didn't have anyone else to deal with.
There are exceptions to the rule as there are & many exes who have remained friends & of course there are no feelings.
If there are feelings then it is very difficult to have a friendship.
Because as they say:
\"A friendship becomes love, a love never becomes friendship!\"
Don't worry if you got divorced, just try to be well and of course, what do I say every time I close my articles?
Always smile genuinely, because you deserve it & because it suits you!!!
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