Love in the years of practice! It's one of the topics I've never touched on.
After all, it's supposed that when you go for an internship or training, you go to learn the subject you're interested in & not to look for the current candidate.
But these are in the program.
The truth is that in the schools we attended or are attending, we are required to do an internship in a specific area.
There we will see what it's like to work with people you don't know and what the climate is like in a workplace.
But what happens if you fall in love with a colleague during your internship?
The truth is that it would be a good idea to never mix business with love.
Because maybe this love will end ingloriously & there will be some awkwardness in the workplace.
On the other hand, you can't prevent love, nor can you turn a blind eye when you like someone from your professional field.
For starters, what you can do is:
- Hang out with him to develop a friendship for starters.
- Find out if he's having an affair so you can be 100% sure he's not into something else.
- Don't get stuck as much as you can when there are others in front.
- Wait for him to make the first move if he's interested in you.
- Exchange social media & phone numbers if he really wants to.
If he doesn't have a problem with you being together during your internship, you can go for it, but in case something goes wrong, keep in the back of your mind that you might feel uncomfortable afterwards having to meet him all the time.
If, on the other hand, he's one of those people who pays attention to you, but doesn't pursue it because he doesn't want to start a relationship with someone from work, you'll have to be patient until your internship is over.
We've all done it, we've all seen someone we fell in love with, but we never dared to tell them & we've all never said goodbye to the one we truly loved.
It's up to you to decide what you want to do during, but also at the end of your internship.
Before every decision, don't forget to think not based on emotion, but based on logic.
Love in the years of practice! So who will you choose, the one who tries to get closer to you or the one who just looks at you but does nothing else?
Don't forget that you should smile genuinely, because you deserve it & because it suits you!!!
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