Contact with the ex? I won't take thanks!!
The ghost of the ex always follows us & it's our fault.
Because we haven't closed the door on our past, but we haven't healed our wounds.
I never understood why we have to stay in touch with those who hurt us.
Besides, Konstantinos Argyros has said it in his song We Say Goodbye.
That's why they're called exes, because they stay in the past.
Whether you leave your door & heart open for it to exist in your present & future is purely your decision.
Keeping in touch with your ex means you're still stuck with him.
You're wearing blinders & you have no desire to move forward in your life.
You stay stuck on something that is over & you have hopes that it will come back to you, even though that may never happen.
And that's not good, because staying with the memories & ghosts of our exes keeps us captive & at night we cry for them unjustly.
Break away from your ex, don't keep any contact with him.
Because this only benefits you, he has you as a given & whenever he wants you, he knows you will run after him.
So don't worry about him & try to build your life the way you want.
Make a list of your wants & goals.
Think about what type of man you want to have by your side & with what standards.
And know that for new love to come into your life, you must let go of the past, to make room for the new!!!
Don't forget that the current person you find along the way won't have any desire to deal with you, since you'll still be stuck with your ex.
So contact with the ex? Never & for any reason!!
Ps: If you want to read my other articles about ghosts of exes, you can go to here!
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