The truth is that I have always been against long-distance relationships.
Not only because of a lack of trust, but also because just being on Skype or once in a while in person doesn't make you much of a couple.
Okay, I don't mean a long-distance relationship these days when we are locked in our homes, due to the serious events happening around us, but I mean those relationships where one is in the North and the other in the South.
For such a relationship to survive, there must be mutual trust so that you don't have to be afraid if your partner is cheating on you.
The difficult thing is that when there's no sex, your partner might want to go somewhere else.
But what happens when your partner who is far away or you fall in love with someone from where you are?
And since you've exhausted all possibilities to be together in person and it's not working out, is it a sign that your relationship is coming to an end?
Because as we know, when someone wants something to go wrong, people will find a solution, whether they want to or not.
Of course, there is the universe, but also the circumstances that bring things to such a state that you no longer know what is dawning on you.
So if you're far from your relationship, all you have to do is have a long talk with him to see where he's going.
After all, a relationship needs both people together and not just one person fighting for both of them.
So, before you have the big conversation, I advise you to write down your own wants and your partner's pros and cons on a piece of paper.
From there on, you will decide what to do, depending on his own answers.
Finally, for me, long-distance relationships require strength, guts, and a lot of courage to manage to hold on to it tooth and nail.
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