Many times, we women fall in love with words and not with actions, and while we see the flaws in the relationship, we close our eyes, wear blinders, and continue to be in a sick relationship.
This unhealthy relationship is of course not good for us, because it spoils our psychological mood and we slowly fall. Being in such a relationship just for the sake of having a relationship does not honor you much and you know it inside, you feel it. Besides, let's not forget that we also have the instinct with which we feel when something is wrong. There are There are many ways to understand that the other person doesn't want you. I have singled out only 9 for you, the most basic ones that shout from afar: "Go away!". So let's go see them and analyze them:
- It's not like it was in the beginning. A little bit of routine, a little bit of boredom, a little bit of finances, a little bit of me, a little bit of you, as the song says, your relationship has changed a lot, you don't see each other often and you're sad. Before you go to make excuses for him, just check if he's telling you the whole truth.
- He is abrupt.. He no longer speaks to you tenderly and sweetly, but he is abrupt. Something has definitely changed and don't believe that fatigue due to work is to blame, that is simply the reason, the cause is something else.
- He is talking secretly on the phone. Are you together and he goes to another room to talk? This is a bit worrying, especially if he does it often and in a quiet place.
- It disappears in the evenings, but also during the dayHe disappears all day and all night, doesn't answer messages, has his cell phone turned off, and hasn't updated his Facebook status. This is a major risk indicator that something is up.
- No photos. Wanting to put your personal life out there is respectable, but a photo on Facebook is all you can have. Not wanting to change his relationship status and not having any photos is suspicious. Let alone sharing things on his wall and changing the settings so you can't see them.
- He goes out alone with his friends. From where you all went out together, he suddenly goes out alone with the group. That's where you start to are you jealous, you search and ask his friends where they went and what they did, but they won't give you the answer since they may have colluded with each other.
- You are rarely seen.. You go out once a week now and you're screaming inside. That green monster of jealousy wakes up inside you and it's logical. Yes, you may miss him and want to see him often, but on the other hand, something doesn't feel right. Something makes you wonder if something else is going on.
- Emergency appointments. Okay, we're all working, but this emergency appointment reminds me of something from the series Constantine and Helen. To test him, you can tell him to go with you to his emergency appointment and wait for him. If he's positive for the escort, everything's fine. If he says no, you just run as far away as possible.
- Finally, what came between us? Words are unnecessary if you see him playing or flirting with other people in front of your eyes or if you find out about it from third parties. You will become fire and fury in every sense of the word, but you don't deserve a constant psychological turmoil. Right?
Never stay in a wrong relationship, try to find a person worthy of you, who loves and appreciates you for who you really are. And of course, put him through a sieve, don't give him your heart from the start