When you break up, the pain is unbearable and you try to pick up the pieces so you can try to live your life again.
A breakup is a small death and it's normal to want to "mourn", cry, throw tantrums and do things you couldn't do while you were in a relationship.
"I call separation death, little one, tell me, strange child, I asked why."
First of all, let me tell you that the only thing you will say is: \"No one will love me, I will never find the right person and at this point I hate everyone\"
Although the above expressions are a bit wrong, yes, I completely understand that you are going through your own phase about this and I am listing the 5 things you will want to do as standard when you break up:
- You'll want to rot in your sleep, something you couldn't do while you were in a relationship. Basically, between you and me, if your ex wasn't worth it, you might even have slept standing up during your relationship.
- You'll be walking around in your pajamas, with messy hair, and you won't care that you're melting on the couch with an ice cream in your hand, watching your favorite series.
- \"I'll go out, I'll drink and I won't give a reason\": I think you got the point, if your best friend didn't like your ex and your ex didn't like your best friend, here's your chance to see her as long as you want without both of you complaining.
- You eat as much as you want and you don't have to pay that much attention to your figure, okay, don't overdo it, we said eat a little more, but not too much more
- Finally, you can do whatever you want, whenever you want without whining, without your many "xu me xu" clothespins, where were you, why did you go there, why are you seeing her and who is she texting you? Feel free without having so many troubles hanging over your head.
The truth is that the longer we are with someone, the more we become emotionally attached to them and then we have a hard time finding our rhythm again and all we want to do is sleep.
"Sleep is my sweetest death"
And yes, what I wrote above I've said in many of my articles, because lying is bad, while you're sleeping you don't think about anything, while you're awake you even start to remember what color his shirt was on your first date.
My dear, don't worry, take your time, do the things that please you that you couldn't do while you were in a relationship, and when you least expect it, the right person will come along.
“Love the fit and not the unfit.”