Wondering how you can get over your ex and what you shouldn't do right after your breakup?
The above questions are 2 of the thousands of questions that every woman has when she breaks up and tries to find ways to detach and move on as quickly as possible.
I will immediately list 5 things that you absolutely cannot do right away or during your breakup, because in my opinion they are minor to major sins.
Sin No. 1: You call him every time you think of him: Calling your ex every time you think about him or because you have flashbacks from the past is not the best thing. Besides losing your own dignity, you need to make the decision that you're broken up and move on.
Sin No. 2: You share your feelings on all social media: For better or worse, social media has been a part of our lives for a few years now, and it's up to us to think about what we're going to post every time. Posting photos or checking in with an ex is something most of us have done. But social media is not a diary where you can record your feelings every day, because that's something personal, so it's better to write them down in a notebook.
Sin No. 3: Don't make changes to yourself that you'll regret: When we are in pain, the only thing that is certain is that we do not make the best decisions about the changes we want to make to ourselves. Everything we do should be thought about seriously, because it has consequences later, such as a bad haircut or hair color, a diet or eating out all the time, even a tattoo, if we get it, it is very difficult to remove it later if we regret it. That is why before you do something to yourself because you want to do it because you are not well, think about it very carefully!
Sin No. 4: Friends with your ex from the first day of the breakup: Okay, I think this is one of the worst sins. To stay friends with your ex, you have to have spent a long time apart and have gotten over your feelings for him. It's very difficult to stay friends with someone right away and pretend you don't feel anything, because it's very rare to forget someone overnight - unless you never felt anything, in which case it's all good.
Sin No. 5: Sex With Ex: Sex with your ex is a heated meal and because you know each other, you prefer to go with him rather than break up and move on. Unfortunately, only having sex with him and meeting him every now and then just for that keeps you trapped in a toxic situation since you will be stuck for good and of course you will have false hopes that you might find them again!
Don't be sad if you've broken up, try to rebuild your life without caring what he does!