Many times we wonder what mistakes we made in our relationship that led to the breakup. Of course, both are to blame, but one always pushes the other to the limit to say the end. 11 Mistakes We make, perhaps even more, but these 11 are the most striking, the ones we notice often and each time instead of correcting them, we fall into the trap again.So what are these mistakes and how should we deal with them?
11 Mistakes We Make in Our Relationships
- We fall headlong into our relationship: A big mistake is not to give everything to the other person, because we get attached and then we feel things and it is difficult for us to accept the fact that we broke up. Falling headfirst into our relationship makes us emotionally insecure and it is really not right because we need to be dynamic, and after all, men want dynamic women.
- We are pressing situations: Another mistake is that we often pressure the other person and don't let them breathe or think about what we are saying to them. It is natural that after a lot of pressure they will leave you because they are suffocating.
- Lack of freedom: Big mistake if you don't leave him alone for a while, it's logical that he wants to spend some time with his family, either stay home and play PlayStation or go out for a drink with his friends. Just because you're together doesn't mean you have to be together all day, because you'll also want to take a break and see your friends.
- Messages many messages: Stop!!! It's an unacceptable mistake to bombard him with phone calls and messages all day and all night. Respect the fact that he may have a lot on his mind and want his peace. Let him miss you, look for you and if he really wants you, he will be the first to send you a message or call you.
- Lack of trust: One of the biggest problems that results in many mistakes. Lack of trust is a big minus for a relationship but you also need to relax a little and remember that you are not signing a contract that you will be together forever. You never know what life will bring and of course be relaxed about everything. If you catch him lying to you or cheating on you just get him away from you. It's that simple.
- Marriage-Children: Wrong…..!!! Not all men want to hear these words, so don't say them to him or mention them to your family, who will probably want to see you as a bride and give them grandchildren.
- Women hunters: The ultimate mistake of today. Women now make the first move, women in the relationship take the initiative and men simply say yes and if they say no it just becomes…war….The best thing is to let the man take the initiative and make decisions together, you are a couple.
- You talk to his friends: If you ask his friends how they spent the night before, it's just wrong, you don't need to ask. Better ask your relationship because he'll feel like you're testing him.
- You talk to his family all the time: It's wrong depending on the situation, if he has given you the right you can do it, if not you shouldn't talk to his family all the time because it's logical that he wants to leave.
- I'm just talking: Talking to yourself in a relationship and always doing your own thing is a clear sign from the start that your relationship will fall apart.
- I love you: No, you can't say this word, not even in the first week or after a year of being in a relationship if he hasn't shown you any signs, and since "I love you" has become a cliché for everyone, just tell him "I adore you" and that won't embarrass him.
So, 11 big mistakes that we make and it would be good to think a little before we make them because it can cost us and then we try to fix things and we can't!!!