There's no doubt that when we meet a person, we want to introduce them to our best friend right away so she can give us her opinion, since we trust her a lot.
But what happens when your ex starts a relationship with your best friend and you suddenly feel like you've been betrayed by your two loved ones?
Let's start from the beginning.
If your ex was constantly blaming your best friend or vice versa, or they were just secretly blaming each other for you, then something was definitely wrong.
If they had it when you were together or if they fixed it after you broke up, it shows that they never respected you and never cared about you and how you would feel when you found out.
And well, your ex, you say inside, okay, it's okay, I'll find someone else, but what hurts is the betrayal of your best friend, who you've shared and been through a lot together.
If your friend had her eye on your ex from the beginning, then she was a snake friend, but even if she wanted him along the way, it was her fault for not telling you and starting a relationship with him after your breakup.
But I still believe that we should never get involved with our girlfriend's ex or our ex's best friend, because it's purely anti-ideological.
Personally, one reason I never had girlfriends, but best friends, is because I couldn't stand female jealousy or this hair-pulling and who would eat the other person's boyfriend, but I also didn't want to have friends because I didn't want them to know about my relationship.
So if your ex goes with your best friend, then all you have to do is close the door on them & never look back, because after that you can't forgive either one or the other.
And as much as it hurts you to lose your best friend, think about whether your friendship was worth it or if she was just using you, because we overlook some things and when the bad happens, we just say: "I remember when she told me that and I said, 'Hey, she's my friend, she didn't mean anything else.'"
Therefore, be careful who you trust and who you know your relationship with!!!
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