When the one you want doesn't want you & it's one of those eternal & unanswered questions of "why doesn't he want me, since I do everything for him?"
But it's not about what sacrifices you make for him or what you risk for him, it's about whether he wants you or not.
After all, we can't please everyone & we can't be liked by everyone.
Some are for friends, some for relationships, some for fun & some are toxic.
If the person you want doesn't want you because you simply don't have chemistry or he's stuck with his ex, that's not a bad thing.
The bad thing is when you're stuck with it & you don't want to move on to the next one.
He may ask you to have a good time or just be friends & here I come & show you the relevant article:
When the person you love (finally) divorces
As I wrote in that article, it's not bad to be friends with someone, as long as a friendship turns into love.
And it all starts with friendship, you can't fall in love with someone and immediately become a couple without knowing each other.
If he continues & doesn't want you after this friendship, it doesn't matter, you move on to the next one.
But the thing is, it's important that you don't have feelings for him.
Because, usually between a man & a woman, one of the two always has feelings for the other.
So if he doesn't like you, you shouldn't be upset at all, maybe in the process he'll want to be together or it could just develop into a very good friendship.
You shouldn't force situations, nor ask someone to change, nor ask them to love you.
Of course, you don't have to change and become like the ones he wants, if he wants you then he has to be with you, because you are different from all the others.
So don't worry, live your life & let things take their course.
*The photo is from Pablo by Buffer*