Who said that the holidays are only for those in love and not for those who are separated?
You may see couples around you having a great time and kissing under the mistletoe, but you too, even though you're divorced, can have a fantastic time with your family and friends.
First of all, during the holidays, because they are days of love, you shouldn't think about or send messages to your late ex, and I'm not talking about the fact that you shouldn't talk about him.
You should start making plans for your days off now, either by organizing an excursion or arranging something special for New Year's Eve.
What you have to do on those days is spend them with those people who truly love you, wear your holiday clothes and your most beautiful and genuine smile.
Maybe during those days you will meet a new love that will lift your spirits and make you forget about your ex.
And instead of meeting someone, think about how you need some time with yourself to see your mistakes, mourn your breakup, and only then feel ready to move on.
But there's no need to whine about him during the holidays; during those days, you should have an amazing time and enjoy your freedom.
It's really not worth being sad about being alone & not having a partner to welcome the new year.
It's better to be free than to be in a doomed relationship where you're suffocated, pressured, and not having a good time.
Finally, enjoy the holidays and stop crying over your late ex!
Happy Holidays!!
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