More or less, we have all gone through the stages of platonic love - I emphasize this - either with our teacher or our professor.
We thought about him with our innocent minds and loved to watch his class. This was innocent and platonic until high school.
(The girl in the photo is wearing a white sweatshirt dress which costs 22.00 euros and you will find it at this link)
At university, when you take your life into your own hands, you fall in love with either your professor, your supervisor, or that handsome driving instructor who, poor thing, tries to teach you how to drive while you lose your mind next to him.
We've all gone through phases like this.
Okay, you're an adult now, but think about it a little better: Why shouldn't you fall in love with the person who teaches you?
- First of all, he may be married with children or simply in a relationship.
- The fact that you will be going with someone who teaches or supervises you may not be for your own good in the end: Think about what others will say and how they will associate this relationship with your good grades (even if you have earned them with a lot of effort and study).
- No matter how nice he is, you have to be confident about this step and think logically and not emotionally (yes, it's time to do this!).
- And come on, tell me how you're together... Will you be able to handle having all eyes on you?
- Yes, the idea of being with your professor excites you, but on the other hand, you need to seriously consider the fact that you could put him in an awkward position and cause him to lose his job or ruin his personal life.
We all had great teachers and supervisors by our side that we admired. And let me tell you a secret, I had one too, but I saw them as teachers and that was the end of the matter.
PS
Yes, I know! After a conversation like that, you want a strong chocolate. Try this “poem” with white chocolate, forest fruits and waffle and really think about whether you want to find your teacher.
White chocolate with crispy waffle & red fruits “Dodoni” 40g
Don't forget to smile because it suits you and because you deserve it.