Sure, the first date is crucial to see how you get along and if you're compatible. But the second date is what gives you another sense of the love that might exist.
We all always get anxious about that first date with the person we like. But none of us have thought about the second date.
After you've exchanged several messages since that first date and after you've gone through that emotional investment - which for me is a bad thing, emotionally, because you don't know what time it will bring - now you need to move on to the second date stage.
Have we ever wondered why the second date is more crucial than the first?
I'll tell you right away:
- Don't forget that the first time you see him, you'll be tense and won't talk much. So a second date is an opportunity to correct any mistakes you made on the first one.
- You get to know the person you like better. Social media messages are great, but real contact plays a different role.
- You observe his movements, his expressions & of course you try to understand if you feel any spark & if there is chemistry between you so that you can move on to subsequent dates.
- Due to traffic, as I mentioned above, you may not be as excited on the first date and have a much better time on the second date.
So let's move on to what you should do on the second date:
- Don't get into trouble again.
- If you went to dinner on the first date, you can now suggest going for drinks or vice versa.
- Go to a restaurant that you both like, after all, they say that love begins with the stomach.
- Cocktails, sushi and sweets if you like them is the combination that most couples go crazy for at the beginning of their acquaintance.
- Talk about serious topics there too, and you'll see if your opinions match or if you simply have a point.
- Humor, kids, life needs laughter, not bitterness.
What you should not do:
- You don't ask who will pay.
- You're not talking about that kiss you want so much, if it's to be kissed it will happen on its own.
- The same goes for sex. Unless the guy only wants you for that and has made it clear to you.
When you go on a first or second date, know that you will always be able to tell what kind of smoke he is smoking by the way he talks, looks at you, touches you, or dresses.
You will judge and make your choice carefully.
Have a good time & no worries!!!
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