TI do not forgive infidelity.
Do you remember that song that Litsa Yagousi once sang? I remember it every time I mention the word infidelity and I'm sure that most of us find this word painful and angry.
Can you really forgive her? Do you pretend that he will change his behavior and not do it again? Or are you like me, who once the other person cheats on you, you send him to his mother's house?
If you belong to the first category where you firmly believe that he won't do it again, think about it: Is it a momentary mistake or something he has done before or will he do it again? And if he does it again, will you forgive him every time? If you think he will change, you are probably wrong! If you belong to the other category where you send him to his mom, you are doing well! Some tolerate it, but others are hurt.
Why it's not easy to forgive infidelity:
1. Why the character doesn't change and you're afraid he will do it again
2. Why infidelity can mean something is wrong in your relationship
3. Because then there will be no trust
4. If glass breaks, it doesn't stick together easily! And the heart has a hard time healing its wounds after infidelity.
5. Why it's not worth being with a person who doesn't care about your feelings.
6. In infidelity there is no "by mistake", but only "I wanted to and I did it".
Over time, once the pain and nerves have passed and you are free or have moved on, you will not remember it at all since it is not even worth thinking about. What if he cheated on you? Don't sit inside crying, get out and move on with your life no matter how difficult it seems.