Friend request from ex's current girlfriend

You broke up and a long time has passed, you want to move on since there is no hope of a reunion with your ex since he has found the next one.

Time passes, you have found your next one and you are in the happy period of your life when suddenly a friend request comes to your Facebook and it is none other than your ex's current one. Mixed feelings (especially if it has been years since you broke up) and you don't know what to do. Should you accept her, block her, tell your current one? There is a void inside you and only one question: "Does she know who I am", the answer is a yes of course and she does, do you think your ex wouldn't have shown a photo to his current one?The current one is not to blame for anything, after all, life moves on and it is perfectly logical for him to find the next one, but the issue that is burning you is whether he knows about the friend request. If you are one of those women who still wants their ex, then we believe that you will definitely want to break up the relationship. However, you may not want to ruin their relationship, because you certainly would not like it to be done to you either.

Ghosts used to be the talk of exes, now they've become the ghosts of the present with friend requests on Facebook, what will you talk about with her? Will you give her advice about him as if nothing is wrong or will you go out for coffee like 2 good friends? If you don't have any problems and you've gotten over him, you can do it, but be careful not to hang out with him too much because bad lies can definitely bring feelings back to the surface, of course, if years have passed since your breakup, the only thing that's certain is that you will love him as a person and he will remain a sweet memory to you (we'll say it now depending on the way you broke up).

Before making any move, you should sit down and think about the consequences (even the few positive ones that exist), the best thing would be to mention it to your relationship so that they know about it (it's not nice not to know since you're together and there's trust between you) and explain to them that their ex's current girlfriend sent you a request and ask them what they would do in your place and then ask yourself what you would like to do. Do you want to scratch old wounds? Do you want to start hanging out with them again because years have passed or do you just want your peace and your partner by your side?

Finally, the only thing that is certain in this particular case with the friend request from your current ex is that you will start thinking, you will go back a little to your past and you will try to understand what is happening. Randomness and coincidence and that he does not know about you is something that we have ruled out since now all couples now (we say now) at the beginning of the relationship mention their exes and show photos of them or their profile or them. So seriously think about all the versions before making a decision!!!

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