When you are in a relationship, look at the soul and not the body of the person you fell in love with..
It is known that we are always fascinated by "appearance" and not by "being", and especially between the ages of 18-25 we find beautiful people for us without caring about the soul and character.
But along the way, we eat our faces and understand that ultimately it is the soul that counts, not the body and external appearance.
The wrapping always breaks and wrinkled, just like the body that ages over time, while the content remains forever the same, just like our soul and character.
In recent years, I've never understood why we judge and label people based on their body and weight and don't look at who they are.
Why don't we want to have real people around us who are full of honesty and instead want toxic and fake people who will hurt us at the slightest hint?
Relationships are not easy, or rather we make them difficult with our high standards and high demands and expectations.
Because of course, if you don't have a bearded, tall guy with or without a beard, full of tattoos, by your side, you're afraid that you won't be one of those sheep that fashion and every fad dictates, and you worry about whether they'll accept you and whether they'll keep you company.
And you, my dear, if you don't have the six-foot-tall girl next to you who is plastic and all she cares about is getting countless likes on Instagram, showing them all off, does that make you feel like you're the star of the crowd?
And yet it's not like that, relationships require passion, love, affection, respect and honesty.
They don't want tattoos, abs, beards, plastic faces, and of course they don't want us to criticize the overweight, because we are all human beings with feelings.
When you are in a relationship, look at the soul and not the body of the person you fell in love with..
So my dears, stop looking and judging the "appearance" and fall in love with the "is" and love your body with its imperfections and yourself, so that others can love you for who you are.
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