If you read the previous one post If you remember me referring to the things that bother me in general, then you will see that in today's post I will write down what bothers me in a relationship, and when I say relationship, I mean the romantic one.
First of all, to put it bluntly, in order to have a relationship, you have to be compatible with the other person and not have a relationship because you have to do well because you're afraid that you'll be left alone or because all your friends are in relationships, you have to do well too and get into the hole and the process of not having a good time in the end, because you rarely have a good time if you have a relationship without love magically knocking on your door.
Also, you can't have a relationship with the first person you meet, nor can you enter into a relationship because you want marriage, okay? Did you ask the other person if he wants it?
Basic: We never have a relationship because Michalakis, Giorgakis, Manolakis, Kostakis, etc. have brown/dark hair, beards or tattoos or when they take off their shirts, their abs are visible and you look at them like you've never seen a man before.
I'm generally very difficult in a relationship now, and I can tell you that I'm very, very, very fickle to the point of stupidity.
Let's see what's bothering me:
- I hate words, I only want actions, I can't hear the same and I prefer to see actions to understand that the other person truly loves me.
- I hate the shoplifted and the fake.
- The line "I'm not like your ex" really annoys me, because in the end you'll end up being worse than your ex.
- Don't try to change me, because I don't change for anyone.
- I get annoyed that women are only for the house and that men are better than us. Okay, in some things you are better than us, but relax a little.
- I hate it when a guy talks about his ex while he's in a relationship. Yeah, I've done that too, but I broke up in record time because it wasn't working out for me.
- Don't get into a relationship just to have fights!
- Stop the "I'm depressed" candy and tell the truth "I cheated on you". Okay, I won't curse at you, but I will break your head, simply and democratically!!
- Don't play with my feelings, because I will take revenge on you in the worst way. Yes i am bitch.
- Don't expect everything from me, do something yourself.
- No more mommy. Not!!!
- Don't have two or three doors, everything is learned in this life, you know!
- Don't play with anyone else in front of me, because I'll just make you jealous in the worst way!
I think the basic things that bother me, the things that bother all women, but maybe I go too far sometimes.
What bothers you in a relationship?