In today's world, relationships are easy to build, easy to break, and difficult to maintain. Many times, we women are gullible and believe the words that are spoken to us without thinking about the subsequent consequences of those words.After all, love and relationships are measured in actions and not in words; they are measured in how your relationship treats you, whether you are together or apart.
Relationships aren't about checking in on Facebook, hearts and likes, relationships require guts, a strong stomach and truths.
Imagine having someone by your side who tells you they love you, hints to you that they have someone else and doesn't tell you at all, and you discover it on your own.
Someone must do the actions from their heart and not because you ask them to, they must want it themselves and that's when you will understand if they truly love you.
Actions can be anything from a rose to a chocolate bar, they don't have to be expensive gifts, it can be a piece of paper with words that express it or an "I love you" in the mirror.
Many times, in order not to step on it, we have to listen more to logic than to emotion, because if we put emotion first, then we blind ourselves and live in our own pink bubble, and perhaps then we have to wake up and get hurt.
Before you tell someone that you love them and before you completely let go, check whether what they are telling you and what they are showing you is actually true or if they are empty words just to pass the time.
As my mom says, put him through a thorough inspection, or as I call it, the Metternich Inquisition,