I'm often asked if I support relationships with people who work nights.
My position is delicate as I have many friends who work nights and have relationships.
From personal experience, I would never do it again, not in a relationship, not in friends with benefits.
Think about it, my friend, being with your boyfriend, being at the store every night, and you being at home, running away from your jealousy.
Personally, never & for any reason, if you're one of those girls who gets jealous, it's better not to get involved.
It will be torture to constantly run to his work to check on him, he will understand and start to get pissed off after a while.
But if you're one of those who doesn't have a problem, don't let me hear you tell me I'm jealous.
Men who work in nightclubs are constantly tempted, who should I start with, barmen who have to flirt with customers, take numbers & offer shots?
And imagine if they were having an affair & they didn't tell you & you discovered it on your own.
Who should I continue with? The DJ who has to be absent almost every night because he gets called to shops every night to work?
You have to have strong nerves to be able to cope with all of this, to keep your jealousy to yourself & not explode every time other people flirt with him.
It's hard, I know, but you can't run around every night in the store trying to figure out what to do...anyone who wants to do something will do it.
Everyone I've asked who works nights to give me their opinion gave me the same answer: You never have a serious relationship with people from there, it's rare & you have to find the right one who you'll have to go through many storms to trust, the nights you'll be alone when he's away, the messages on Facebook & the friend requests they'll send him, the phone numbers & papers you'll find, going to the store to sit alone for hours waiting for him to finish school & much more.
I understand that men who work nights are a temptation but it's not always the best.
My personal opinion from my experience of course is that it doesn't mean everyone is in the same boat.
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