Let's take the possibility that you're not having a good time anymore, either because you're tired, bored, you caught him lying to you, cheating on you or vice versa (and you don't want to mention it) or finally you've found others because the routine has exhausted you and you've started to think about all the possibilities. Fights are now a frequent phenomenon, you've started to distance yourself from each other and separation is the definitive solution.Alone or in a relationship that no longer feels right? Everyone deserves a second chance, even the relationships, but let's not forget that when glass breaks, it doesn't stick to anything no matter how much we want it to. So you come to the question again: Alone or in a relationship? Have you heard the saying: A monk danced for you and you jumped as much as you want? So my friend, it's time to clarify what you want, before you get hurt worse, think about the positives and the negatives, take a piece of paper, make 2 columns and write them down. Not stingy, nor based on emotion, but based on logic. It's difficult, but when you make excessive efforts to save a relationship that has typically ended a long time ago, it's like washing the same clothes over and over again and the stain doesn't come out.
So it is with the relationships, today you are together and tomorrow you are not, you have not signed any contract that you will be together forever and forever does not exist nowadays. And we ask again: Alone or in a relationship? As difficult as it may sound to you to break up, do not forget that you will have people by your side who truly love you, people who care about you and of course when you get over it you will definitely move on. Because if your partner loved you, you would not argue on a daily basis, but you would not even ask yourself the question alone or in a relationship?
So? You weigh everything and you'll understand where the scales tip. Because breaking up and getting back together is like signing your own sentence (not always, but in a large percentage you end up breaking up again) and the fights will be more intense, you'll do things secretly from each other (often intensely) and of course you'll be in a relationship just to be together.
You don't need to be with someone to show that you're in a relationship since you yourself don't feel good in it. The only thing you can do is: Either give it time and think about it, or break up for a while and see how you feel, or break up permanently.
Don't make hasty moves or force situations, just smile through all the difficulties.