For years now I've had the following question: Why on earth do my exes want to keep friendly contact with me?
At first it sounded cool, crazy, like it surpassed any science fiction scenario.
I was wondering why on earth, after we broke up for good or bad, he wants us to keep in touch as if nothing happened?
How is this possible? You'll tell me, Anna Vissi did it with Nikos Karvelas, but they're one thing and we're another with our exes.
The truth is that I have maintained friendly relations with exes who we dated for 2 months, 4 months, etc., but after a long time has passed, why can't you tell your heart "stop feeling, change the button and put them in the friend zone"?
But how on earth can you talk to him like you were never a couple?
And I'll give you the answer: If he's a good guy and you broke up amicably, it's very easy to see him as a friend, but if he treated you badly then you keep him on a friendly level full of irony, if you did the stupid thing, you don't care at all.
I finally came to the conclusion that exes put you in the friend zone - if not all of them, most of them, although all 100% will think about this when they propose to you - so that they can have you as a fight in case they don't find someone better, or simply because you've treated them perfectly, they keep you so they can come back when they're hurt.
But it's up to you to return or not.
Personally, I have never thought about getting back with all the exes I have, because what ends ends and there is no going back, after all, we never go back to the murderers of our hearts!!!