A few days ago a friend of mine called me and said, "Why do exes always remain exes and never become present again?\'\'.
In my own mind, I thought he was making fun of me at that moment, since the most correct answer is the following: "If a relationship doesn't work anymore, then you break up and there's absolutely no point in getting back together with your ex. What's the point of getting back together when you were together and it just ended?"
But why should my ex stay an ex forever and never become a present again?
After a while, I think about it again and put myself in her shoes, asking myself the same question, only again I can't give her any other answer - a different answer I would have given her when I was 18, when at that time I was saying that maybe at some point I would go back to my ex-.
If I could change time, I might go back to my ex, but because I've matured and have changed my mind, I would never go back to any of my exes.
Then I think about those couples - which are rare - who get back together with their exes and everything is sweet. But again, in my own mind, with my own experiences and based on my own exes, I would never go back to them, because, to put it bluntly, they just weren't worth it.
Trying to understand my ex's reasoning and why we broke up made me think that if there is a chance of a reunion, then I don't want that reunion, because I don't want to play it safe.
I won't hide from you that I rarely think about my ex, but the truth is that for some reason all our happy moments have been erased from my memory and the bad ones have remained etched in my mind, so based on this memory I would never go back.
As I said to my friend: Before making any decision, weigh the pros and cons of your ex, as well as your relationship, and decide what is best for you and only you.
Exes are exes, they don't need to be current again EVER!!!
Ps: Don't waste your time on people who don't deserve it & smile because you deserve it!!!