One month I didn't talk at all & didn't even mention my relationship & I actually felt really good about not doing it.
Since I was little, I used to share things with my friends & the truth is, sometimes I would get angry about it.
Talking about your relationship constantly isn't necessarily a bad thing.
But when you're at the beginning & in the middle, you don't need to mention him.
In my last relationship, I decided to do the following for the first time in history:
Don't tell anyone I'm in a relationship!
And the reasons?
- I didn't need to announce my relationship to my friends yet until I saw where we would end up.
- I didn't want to worry about whether my friends would like him or not.
- I wanted to enjoy my relationship without being asked about him.
- I didn't want to be constantly glued to my phone when I went out with them, talking to my relationship.
- I didn't want to mess it up at all as I didn't know where this relationship would go.
- Because my friends and relationships are hanging out after the breakup, yes it's a bad thing, but on the other hand it's not right to bring someone into the group and then break up after a while, etc.
- I wanted to first see how our first month would go & then I would introduce him to them.
One month So I didn't mention him at all & that calmed me down as I could think about some things on my own without being influenced.
One month He was dating my girlfriend, but with friends and no one realized I was in a relationship.
If you want to see how your relationship will go for the first time, it's better to keep it a secret until you're sure he's the right person for you.
If you still want to introduce him to your group, you can do so, but with caution & composure.
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